Case 29 of 40
Pause and assess when a person newly resists personal care
Example case for staff education
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Panel 1: Before illness
Evelyn has dementia but usually accepts help with washing.
Moira: She normally enjoys choosing what to wear.
Panel 2: Morning
Today she is newly confused and resists care.
Evelyn: Stop. I do not know what you are doing.
Panel 3: Morning
The attempt stops while staff assess the change.
Nurse Tom: We will pause and find out what is upsetting you.
Panel 4: Morning
She cannot hear the explanation clearly.
Nurse Tom: Can you hear me better now?
Panel 5: Morning
Movement causes pain that she had not described.
Evelyn: It hurts when you lift that arm.
Panel 6: Morning
Acute inattention prompts delirium assessment and a search for causes.
Ward doctor Amira: This is a new change, not simply her dementia.
Panel 7: Later
One person explains one step at a time.
Nurse Tom: May I help you wash this hand first?
Panel 8: Later
Adapted care reduces fear and discomfort.
Evelyn: That is easier. Go slowly.
Panel 9: Evening
Delirium remains; the successful approach and review plan are shared.
Nurse Tom: Report any further change. The clinician will reassess her tomorrow.
Sources
- [T01] MacLullich AMJ. Conceptualising distress in delirium. Usher teaching presentation, May 2026. Teaching slides.
- [S05] Teodorczyk, P. and Różańska-Walędziak, A. (2026) ‘From Sensory Deprivation to Psychosis: Environmental Mechanisms of Delirium in Dementia: An Eight-Year Retrospective Longitudinal Case Report and Narrative Review’, Healthcare, 14(17), 2705.
- [S30] Hughes, L.D. and McKay, E. (2013) ‘Can donepezil hydrochloride reduce the role of neuroleptic drugs in delirium? A case report’, Medical Student Research Journal, 2(Winter), pp. 11–16.
- [G01] National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. Delirium: prevention, diagnosis and management in hospital and long-term care. CG103.

Commentary
Evelyn is newly resisting care that she usually accepts. Assess the change for delirium and possible illness, rather than only recording her behaviour. She also has immediate reasons to be distressed: she does not hear the explanation, movement hurts and several staff approaching together frighten her.
Staff stop and assess these problems before resuming necessary care. The nurse checks hearing, explains the next action and seeks clinical assessment of the new change and pain. Staff time care according to the revised pain relief plan and ask Evelyn to do fewer things at once. These actions follow the distress guidance in T01 and recommendations to address causes and communicate effectively [G01].
Evelyn still has delirium after she accepts help with washing. That improvement does not establish that her thinking has recovered or that hearing loss explained all her difficulties. Future attempts at care may still be difficult. Continue the approach that helped and report symptoms that return or worsen.
Before repeating an unsuccessful attempt at care, assess what has changed and what the person may be experiencing. The accompanying sources describe related clinical situations. They do not describe Evelyn’s life or the exact sequence in this example [S05, S30].